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<< previous page 1 2 next page>> written by Teecee Go If your partner finds out that you have been involved with another married spouse and want to walk out of your relationship, will it still possible to heal the damage done? That is a really difficult situation for both parties, and the way you handle it will play a great role in how things turn out.
written by Paul Friedman Divorce mediation almost sounds good, like a smooth transition from being married, to a new life without the drama of marriage problems. It sounds like a very humane and civilized way for a couple to take the sophisticated, gentle approach towards creating devastation and a lifetime of pretending everything is fine. In reality, divorce mediation is nothing like what it sounds like. I know; I was a divorce mediator.
written by Paul Friedman "We stay married just for the kids..." I can't tell you how many times I heard that from really good people; couples who were willing to endure almost anything for the sake of their children. If you are making a pact just to live together, why not come up with a pact that creates happiness?
written by Paul Friedman To have people say, "There goes a happy married couple," all you have to do is learn what marriage is all about and follow the rules of success.
written by Paul Friedman If you want to save your marriage, the question of how you are going to be dealing with your spouse is of paramount importance. There are different methods that have been tried and have proven to be failures time and again. Let's go over those failed methods which at first seem so tempting but prove to be disastrous.
written by Paul Friedman When people reach the end of their emotional and psychological rope they invariably ask if their marriage is worth saving. Ironically, they already know intuitively they should save their marriage; they just don't know how. written by Paul Friedman We humans are pretty clever in our ignorance. When it comes to describing the results of divorce we have become masters of ignorance. Not only have we accepted divorce as normal but we have excused it completely and even come up with so-called benefits… written by Paul Friedman The ghosts I want to save you from are the formless phantoms that may be haunting your marriage. The formless entities that threaten your marriage are very real indeed. The most destructive phantom you can save your marriage from is Fear. Fear is the spirit of mistrust, doubt and uncertainty… written by Paul Friedman The divorce rate in our society is so high that everyone gives up long before they should without fully considering what they could do to save their marriage. And it is completely understandable. Part of the crisis in our country is that when people are having difficulty with their marriage they look for marriage counseling… written by Paul Friedman It is my passion and my mission to stop divorce. It is destroying my country and eroding my family tree. It has undermined my community and impacted my children. It has defined the society within which I live in terms that are an embarrassment. I see people who give up on the spiritual values and moral standards that are foundational for a successful society. My friends and neighbors have learned to rationalize, as have I. written by Paul Friedman From my point of view it is rather unfortunate that psychologists are viewed by most people as being at the same educational and intelligence level as a doctor of medicine. written by Paul Friedman By following the four steps outlined above you almost certainly have a fulfilling and loving relationship - it almost can't be helped. written by Paul Friedman When we enter into a marriage it isn't our job to criticize our partner for their weaknesses. It is our job to support them through their difficult times. written by Paul Friedman When we have established the relationship of a marriage or our intention to be married we agree to open our hearts so love can flow through without restrictions. written by Paul Friedman Never think of jealousy as part of yourself or anyone else. Jealousy, like other unwelcome intruders, can be pushed out by the owner of the mind. written by Paul Friedman …it is normal to have a happy marriage as long as you’re following what I would call the physics of marriage. There are natural laws for everything. written by Paul Friedman A lot of time and money could be saved, and emotional pain and suffering would end if people understood one another and realized that the family is meant to be the safest refuge in the world. written by Paul Friedman Our environment prods us towards happiness, sadness, boredom or excitement, but it is not outer conditions alone that are responsible for our feelings. written by Paul Friedman My belief is divorce has become acceptable because mainstream therapists simply don't know how to help a married couple remain together. written by Paul Friedman The cause of marriage failure lies in not understanding what a marriage is. written by Paul Friedman To make a relationship last, infuse love with as many thoughts as you can for your spouse every moment. written by Paul Friedman The effort required to learn how to be happily married is microscopic compared to the suffering that comes from getting a divorce. written by Paul Friedman By the time people have fumbled around in a marital relationship and are looking for divorce advice they are discouraged and confused. But the most simple advice for those who have children is don’t do it, if there is any way at a written by Paul Friedman But instead of getting right to the heart of the problem the government is dealing with a result of the problem, an ailing industry... Like an ailing marriage. written by Paul Friedman For the most part men are clumsy and women are inarticulate when it comes to intimacy. In fact it is difficult to call the sexual interaction between most couples intimacy, at all. written by Paul Friedman The above five tips are just the tip of the iceberg. A truly happy marriage comes from unselfish and mature behavior. written by Paul Friedman It’s up to us to compare notes, try new things and see what works for us; and then share what we know with others. written by Paul Friedman To make a relationship last, infuse love with as many thoughts as you can for your spouse every moment. written by Paul Friedman The effort required to learn how to be happily married is microscopic compared to the suffering that comes from getting a divorce. written by Paul Friedman By the time people have fumbled around in a marital relationship and are looking for divorce advice they are discouraged and confused. But the most simple advice for those who have children is don’t do it, if there is any way at all to avoid it. << previous page 1 2 next page>> |