Coping With a Break Up: The Tears in Your Beer

                                                                                         

You cannot figure it out. You have been told you are attractive, have a great personality and all that good stuff. But it seems like as of late people have been avoiding you. No strike that, they have been avoiding you.

What about dating? No problem their since you have had plenty of dates. First dates mostly. In fact for quite awhile now they have all been first dates because there have been no second dates.

You call your family and good friends (or so you thought) to discuss it but either they are not taking your calls or if they do the conversations are amazingly short. It seems like they always have something important to do like watching paint dry or counting the blades of grass in their backyard;

It wasn't always like this so what's up?

It could be that they are tired of hearing you sing the blues about your ex. They were okay in the beginning. It was perfectly understandable that you needed a shoulder to cry on. Your ex was really something special and the two of you were quite a pair.

Nobody begrudged you that; a few of your friends and family have been there themselves. They know quite well what it means to breakup with someone you care about deeply.

That however is not the issue. The issue is you will not let it go. Every time you talk with the people in your circle they know the conversation will eventually get around to you and your ex; what could have happened should have happened and why it didn't. It will be this or some variation. All those first dates you had also know the drill.

The thing is you keep telling yourself you want to meet someone new and different. That may be your intent but you are going about it in a very wrong way.

What you had with your ex may be the most amazing thing that you have ever experienced in a relationship. Terrific but it is over now and there is no going back. Your ex made that quite clear.

So if you really want to meet someone new than the best thing you can do is stop reliving the past with everyone you come into contact with. Once you put that into practice then you have cleared the way to truly meet and enjoy a new relationship.

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Article written by Daryl Campbell at The Relationship Tip. Are you suffering from BYEA Syndrome?

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